Skip to main content

8 Chapter Eight: Finding your keys

You may have heard the story of the man discovered one night standing under a streetlight searching for his keys. When asked where he had lost them, he pointed to a place in the dark fifty feet away. When asked why he wasn’t looking there, the man replied, “It’s dark over there, and I can’t see.”

Such a strategy is obviously flawed, but it points to our tendency to focus—sometimes exclusively—on what we can observe instead of on what is important. We have a tendency to celebrate—and perhaps model off of—lives of people who are highly visible to us (movie stars, athletes, etc.), when there are others who may be better life models but are not as visible, their work showing up only in the shadows. Consider, for instance, Vasily Arkhipov. Serving on a crippled Soviet submarine off the coast of Florida during the Cuban Missile Crisis, he alone prevented his fellow officers from launching a nuclear torpedo—an act that most agree would have touched off nuclear war. His courageous stand may have saved the world from total destruction, but no one knows his name. Ordinary people do extraordinary things every day, much of which goes unnoticed. But it still makes a difference.

When assessing the effectiveness of an action or process, we tend to focus on outcomes that are directly observable or have immediate impact. But often the true value lies in something that is not directly observable or not obviously important. In tennis or basketball it’s easy to marvel at an explosive overhead smash or slam dunk, but fail to appreciate the preceding play that made those shots possible. In business economics it is much easier to focus on measurable revenues and costs experienced by the buyer and seller, rather than on harder-to-measure externalities—costs and benefits of the transaction experienced by third parties apparently not participating in the transaction. These can be good, like when preserving a park enhances the value of homes in the surrounding area and the homeowners benefit without doing anything, or bad, like when products create pollution or waste, the cost of which is not borne by the producers or consumers. In either case, these externalities are important, but easily forgotten.

Our tendency to focus only on what we see can also challenge our faith. Let me share my own experience. Each person has some peculiar abilities. Somehow, I am able to touch someone’s forehead and know his or her temperature within a half a degree. Somehow, I am also able to wake up in the night and know what time it is—usually within a few minutes and often exactly. Each of these is easily validated, but I don’t understand either. Likewise, I can feel the presence of God in my life through a sensed purpose in apparently random events and interactions with others that defy logic in terms of timing and prescience. I am fully aware that things can happen by chance and that improbable things are often more probable than they seem. But that kind of thing happens to me ten or twenty times a day. At some point you have to think, “Something is going on here”—and you begin to see the hand of God in little things everywhere. (I talk about all of this more in the chapters on Faith and Miracles, among others.)

I have an inner sense this feeling is true in the same way as I know the temperature and the time. The only difference from those two is that it is not easily validated. So the question is the same as it is for the man looking for his keys under light: Does something being true require that we can observe or validate it? Does something being true require that there exists a logical argument to support it? I believe that it is important to try to subject all ideas to observation and analysis and not to accept unexamined dogma. But is it possible there are true things we will never be able to observe? Is it possible there are true things for which we will never find a logical argument?

I am a great lover of science, learning and knowledge. Yet it is far too easy, when we experience the exhilaration of discovery, to believe that we have, or can develop, complete understanding of things. It is so easy to become arrogant and make a god out of our knowledge or ourselves, forgetting there are still things we do not know and that there may be things—sometimes critical things—that will always be “in the dark.” And that does not make them less true. 

Comments

Popular Posts

Preface

Before Tom Cruise, Matt Damon, Arnold Schwarzenegger, and even Clint Eastwood, there was John Wayne. The iconic action hero of my youth, “The Duke”, as he was sometimes called, was famous for fighting, shooting, and tough-talking his way through every movie to protect the abused and vanquish the bad guys, wherever they were. To me, his characters seemed a source of stability on which I could build my sense of right and wrong. I loved going to movies to see the most recent John Wayne film, and believed that anything John Wayne did was, by definition, good. He was a role model to me. And then an unsettling thing happened. There, in one of my favorite movies, The Duke was driving while clearly intoxicated. This was before MADD and SADD and national sensitivity to the dangers of drunk driving, but my awareness of the issue had been raised when someone very dear to me had almost been killed by a drunk driver. When that accident happened, I remember wondering why someone would risk lives—t...

29 CHAPTER TWENTY-NINE: Don’t be tricked into singing along with lyrics just because the melody is good

It’s hard to understand the emotional effect of music—how soothing, relaxing, uplifting, terrifying, or electrifying a good tune can be. It is scary, however, how easy it is to sing along with virtually any lyrics if the tune is stuck in your head. I always try to understand song lyrics, get their message, and think about why the author wrote them—and often I conclude that the message and motive are inconsistent with my beliefs and perhaps dangerous. And yet, I regularly catch myself humming or playing the tune of such a song in my head, with the lyrics floating along either in my brain or on my lips. While music’s effect may be singular, other things can have similar effects: something or someone of great beauty, an eloquent essay or speaker, a good story or movie, and even a friend. Anything that causes you to let your guard down can have this power. You must be aware of it all of the time. Let me explain why I think it is dangerous to just “sing along” without thinking about t...

36 CHAPTER THIRTY-SIX “To will one thing”: Section 8

The Struggle of finding and holding onto Faith The struggle in finding and holding faith seems to me natural, and perhaps healthy and necessary if it is to be your own. It also seems common: there many, many autobiographies of people who struggled and then found faith, but a few that I have found helpful are: •          Surprised by Joy by C.S. Lewis and the play and movie, “The Most Reluctant Convert” about his journey to faith •          Seven Story Mountain by Thomas Merton •          Confessions by Augustine of Hippo, •          A Man Called Peter by Catherine Marshall , and •          The Language of God by Francis Collins. I Did It For You , by Lecrae gives his story in the form of a song. There are also tons of books on faith and belief, especially in relation to reaso...