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34 CHAPTER THIRTY-FOUR The first step in getting there…

Yogi Berra once said, “If you don’t know where you’re going, you’ll end up someplace else,” which was his typically Berra way of sharing the common wisdom, “Knowing where you are going is the first step to getting there.”

Whether it’s a trip, a project, or your life, if you don’t take the time and energy to think about where you want to end up, you will literally be aimless—aiming at nothing. As Ben Franklin pointed out, this comes with consequence: “If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail.”

This reality is understood in most businesses and organizations, which must be able to articulate what they plan to accomplish—and why it’s important—to get the financial and other resources they need to get started and sustain themselves. Without getting into the weeds, this articulation includes

         A Mission Statement, declaring the values, priorities, and overall contribution. A good example that is shorter than most is offered by Khan Academy: “Our mission is to provide free, world-class education to anyone, anywhere”

         Goals, stating things that must be accomplished to deliver the mission, and

         Plans, strategies, and/or actions, stating how the goals will be accomplished

A common step in the process of creating this “strategic plan” is going through something called a SWOT Analysis, in which the organization reflects on

         Strengths within the organization that can contribute to success

         Weaknesses within the organization that could hinder success

         Opportunities from outside that could contribute to the success of the organization

         Threats from outside that could hinder the success of the organization

The SWOT Analysis helps identify goals that are necessary to accomplish the mission, as well as plans, strategies, and/or actions necessary to accomplish the goals.

These tools can be used by individuals and families to bring focus, purpose, and meaning to their lives. The value of this cannot be overstated: a wide range of research suggests that the so called, “crisis of purpose” currently being experienced in societies around the world is driving substance abuse, suicide, and many other health, economic, and societal ills. 

I tend away from such statements, but I think it possible that the current crisis of purpose, which research suggests is born of uncertainty, lack of trust, and loss of meaning, is about to be pushed farther than it’s ever been by developments in Artificial Intelligence and robotics, which are changing the need for and nature of work. In 1900, more than 40% of the US workforce was employed in agriculture, but technological advances offered efficiencies that allowed that number to drop below 2% by 2000. The societal impact of that transition is recounted in vast research, but also in literature (e.g. “The Grapes of Wrath”), film (e.g. “Places in the Heart” and “Country”), and other creative works, as people lost their farms, their identities, and their purpose.

Without seeming alarmist, it is likely that many or all industries are in the midst of such transitions, as a result of advancements in AI and robotics—but instead of happening over a century, they will happen over a few years or decades. Workers leaving farms in the 20th century eventually found jobs in other industries—long-term overall unemployment remains around 5%—but transitions can take a toll if they cause us to lose identity and purpose. Agent Smith may have overstated it when he said to Neo (in The Matrix Reloaded), “without purpose, we would not exist,” but purpose is vital to each of us. In the same scene, the Oracle also shared, “We’re all here to do what we’re all here to do.” The challenge is in figuring out what that is in a changing world.

Purpose gives life meaning and meaning gives life purpose. Realizing and focusing on that will change your life. In the chapter on Faith I suggest a source of meaning and purpose for your life.

Related to that, there are many books on helping you discover your purpose, but one that millions have found useful is Rick Warren’s The Purpose Driven Life. I know I have suggested a lifetime of reading, but I believe, after the Bible, Warren’s book should be a priority. It contains readings that take you through a process for 40 days and really can help you discover or rediscover your purpose. Michael Phelps, who struggled with his identity as a person away from swimming to the point of alcohol abuse and suicidal thoughts, credits the book with saving his life.

So, while it may seem strange to apply the principles of strategic planning to our lives, I believe it is always valuable—and that it is vital in our current world. Taking time to consider your values, priorities, and overall contributions you hope to make—your mission statement—will allow you to stay focused on what you want your life to be about. Drafting goals—which will change over time as you and the world change—will help you understand what you need to do to accomplish your mission. Identifying plans, strategies, and actions necessary to accomplish your goals will identify work you need to do every day to accomplish your goals and mission. Doing a candid SWOT analysis will help you understand realities in yourself and the world that can help or hinder your progress. Things will change and you will need to adapt, but planning will help you understand and focus on your purpose.

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