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36 CHAPTER THIRTY-SIX “To will one thing”: Section 6

Managing our priorities

Paul tells us “I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.” (Phil 4:12-13). God modeled that in the way he came to earth, “though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich.” (2 Corinthians 8:9)

“Man does not live by bread alone” isn’t saying bread is not important—in fact, God provided it in manna and in the feeding of the 5000. It’s just saying that bread alone, while necessary, is not enough. “The love of money is the root of all evil” isn’t saying that money is evil. It’s saying the love of money—turning money into an idol is. Both are about good things becoming over-prioritized and idols on their own (disordered loves) not that they aren’t valuable and blessings from God to be enjoyed and appreciated. We must always give, and use them for, the glory to God and never think of them as our own (it’s easy to fail at that). Joseph of Arimathea was a rich man who used his wealth (and perhaps his influence in getting the body) to bury Jesus on Good Friday. Mary used expensive nard to anoint Jesus. Joanna and Susanna supported the disciples “out of their own means.” Jesus attended dinners in his honor, accepting anointing and food without discussion, saying “the poor will be with you always”

Again, gifts from God are all around us, for which we should give thanks and praise. We just need to be sure not to cherish or cling to them, because they can easily become idols if we are not careful—distracting proxies from the real good, which is God, who should be our focus and first love. If we aren’t careful, we can easily end up praising God for the good things that come from him instead of for himself, whether good things come or not (think of Job, who blesses God in good and in hardship, and Jesus at multiple points in the Passion). This is related to the discussion below on the attributes of Jesus with which people might engage over time. All of this is also related to how we love our families, and our neighbors—whoever they are—and ordering our loves appropriately.

So when you describe your work or successes you need to be clear that you are taking joy in what God is doing through/with you so it doesn’t sound like you are taking pride for yourself. Many athletes—particularly football players, I think—do that often. A nice example of keeping this in focus is the video:

Dear softball,
You’re not the most important thing in my life.

Love,
Grace Lyons (3x national champion in Division 1 softball)

And our praise

When striving to have your words and life channel the Holy Spirit within you, you will constantly be amazed at the results. It is right to be amazed, but again, be careful not to begin to take credit for it yourself (which Nebuchadnezzar did) or be seen to be doing that by others (which will look like pride)—be careful always to give the glory to God for what you are able to do in your life.

Jesus surprised his hearers by telling them “Truly I tell you, it is hard for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of heaven,” since the common belief was that being wealthy meant you were in favor with God—a sort of ancient “prosperity gospel.” While I have expressed that things seem to go better in my life when I follow the guidance of the Spirit, as I am able to discern it, that is no guarantee that things will go well and, again, it comes with temptation. The reason the rich may have the hardest time keeping faith in God/getting to heaven is because it’s easy for them to be prideful and hard not to take credit for their success instead of giving it to God. An amazing thing about David is that, for all of his success, he always (in good times and bad) gave glory to God and trusted Him for whatever came next. A possible exception was when he ordered a census to figure out his military strength and plan for himself —and he and Israel suffered for that decision.

Again, we must be careful not to idolize people or things, but to be thankful for them.

It’s easy and perhaps natural when seeing the beauty of the natural world or the intricacies of science to be struck with awe and filled with praise and thanks to God the Creator, though it’s possible to worship those things as idols. It seems easy to me, when admiring the beauty of my wife or of a newborn child to escalate the appreciation to adoration, effectively idolizing the person. That seems bad, and even dangerous, for both me and them. To love them is natural but to idolize them puts focus on the wrong place. Like remembering to thank and praise God for your gifts instead of taking self-pride in them, focusing praise and thanks to God for the beauty and gift of loved ones instead of idolizing them is critical in directing the awe appropriately and keeping a good thing from leading you astray. The focus and thanks always need to be towards God, who is eternal and perfect, and not his creations, which may, even accidentally and without ill intent, let you down or cause you harm.

Finally, beware the cost of pragmatism when it involves prioritizing the worldly instead of the Godly—the greatest example of this being Caiaphas, the high priest, being concerned about the relationship with Rome instead of openly considering whether Jesus might be the Messiah. Prioritization of the worldly over the Godly was also behind the infamous work of Burke and Hare, who supplied medical researchers with cadavers by robbing graves, but ultimately decided to meet excess demand by actually creating cadavers—killing people. We must never prioritize our sense of worldly needs and realities over our understanding of the will of God.


Sections in this chapter:

  • The heart of faith
  • The core message and goal for your life
  • Seeking to trust God and become more like Jesus
  • Knowing your role—and God’s
  • Fruit of the Spirit
  • Managing our priorities and our praise
  • Identity, the creeds, and unity
  • The struggle of finding and holding faith
  • Ultimate truth
  • Faith must be our own
  • Levels and types of faith
  • Faith vs. knowledge
  • Faith and the Law and Works
  • Free Will and The Fall
  • Seeking to understand the Bible and life through discernment
  • The challenge of discernment
  • Handling different discernments
  • "Our own words"
  • Exploring challenging passages and ideas
  • The importance of prayer
  • Personal reflections
  • The importance of living the life
  • It’s not too late

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